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Tuesday, August 31, 2010


I will leave...now. I enter the car at 11:00 PM and begin the 6 hour ride home. After a brief glimpse, the moon hides in cloud and fog. The sky is alternately pitch dark, or hazed with city up lighting in blood orange hues. This night has gone horribly wrong.

My hands are shaking and my belly quivers. My lips are pressed together and begin to ache. I try to part them. Clamp them shut again. I have not cried, though the pressure builds. All the cells in my body seem to be knocking together and I white knuckle the steering wheel in a silent vehicle.

My body knew first. It’s always the way. You came and sat on my couch tonight from the opposite one where you lay, and my guts begin to scream with long ago memories of something gonna happen, of I remember this, and run run run. But you are not my dad, and you are not my mom, or those men in the park, or the one on the cable car. You are step-father, and I know you…I trust you. So I disregard the warning until you scoot closer and your hand reaches out to the top of my shoulder where it meets my neck. The base of my throat flutters crazily and for a moment I foolishly think, hope, that you have something fatherly-daughterly to say, that you mean to encourage and my fear is ridiculous.

I turn to you, questioning, and you pull my head to yours, purse your lips. Oh God, oh God…no No NO NO!. I turn my head away and your lips graze the corner of my eye. I thought I was done with the likes of this. I thought molesters were far, and flashers were gone, and there was no more trust to break. I thought I was old. I would never have expected this here…in this house…you. I am blindsided and confused. Did that just happen? What the fuck? You pull back, apologize. I mumble…what…what did I mumble? Why don’t I slap you? Why don’t I shout? DAMN IT. I inwardly hang my head. I am still broken. I am no stronger. Have I learned nothing?

Do you know how small you have made me feel (daddy)? Should I tell (mommy)? Where is sister? I am 2, 4, 6….I feel a child and I want to throw up. I want to cry but I can feel myself curling in, shutting doors, windows, drawing curtains and dimming lights. Cocooning, I hug the sidewalk as I go to my room and shut the door. I am so small within my frame that I see my clothes hanging past limbs, as a costume from the dress up chest. I don’t know where 48 year old Annie went? How did I wind up right back where I started? HOW DID YOU MAKE ME THIS SMALL? HOW DID I LET YOU?

I cannot get air. My heart is pumping wildly and my knees shake unsteadily. Mom knocks on the door. She knows. He has confessed.

I tell myself, “Fight Annie. Do not fall in upon yourself again. Remain open, remain open, remain open. YOU ARE FORTY-EIGHT YEARS OLD”. My body wants to dredge its horrible history up to the surface, as if to finally lay bare its secrets. I push back my pig-tails and hug my Raggedy Ann, so unsure now. The moon is full, and shines close here and far there. Same moon. I grab my pacifier and crawl home,.


  1. i got linked here from your 'forgive me' post. my fists clenched while reading this and my heart sank at the pathetic nature of those who so carelessly and disgusting break our trust.

    i am sorry these things exist in our world.

    the child in us never dies and it never forgets how we've been hurt and it always is hasty to paralyse us in fear and doubt. but you have the eyes, the mind, the heart and wisdom of age within that child now. don't forget that.

  2. this world we live in is the accumulation of our fathers' sins. our mothers' too, but mostly the dads of this world have built this place. love to you.


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